Soulful Self-Care Before the Holiday Hustle

A devotional for the woman who longs to stay grounded when everything speeds up.

The pace of the world tends to accelerate in December. The calendars fill, the lists grow longer, and the pressure to do more, buy more, and be more can drown out the quiet voice of the Spirit within us. But what if this year, we approached the season differently?

What if instead of overextending ourselves, we chose to guard our hearts?

Proverbs 4:23 reminds us that everything we do flows from the condition of our heart. Our choices, our attitudes, our interactions with others - they all stem from within. Soulful self-care, then, is not selfish. It’s stewardship. It’s about nurturing what God has entrusted to us - our mind, our body, and most tenderly, our soul.

And in a season that often pulls us in every direction, we need the Fruit of the Spirit - especially gentleness and self-control. These fruits help us respond instead of react. They remind us that we’re not led by impulse or exhaustion, but by the Spirit who lives in us. (Galatians 5:22-23)

To care for your soul means you pause long enough to notice it. You make room for peace. You create boundaries that protect your heart and your joy. You speak kindly to yourself. You rest, not just because you’re tired, but because rest is holy.

This isn’t about doing less for the sake of less. It’s about doing what matters, with intention, with grace, and with alignment to who God is calling you to be in this season.

Let this be your December declaration:

I will not lose myself in the hustle.

I will set clear boundaries and make pre-decisions which protect my energy and my soul.

I will care for what’s sacred within me.

I will guard my heart, walk in gentleness, and honor the rhythm of grace.

Reflection & Journaling Prompts: 📝 

1. What does your soul need most in this season?

   (Rest? Space? Encouragement? Boundaries? Play?)

2. Where in your life can you practice more gentleness—with yourself or with others?

3. What would self-control look like as a spiritual gift rather than a form of restriction?

Encourage someone you love and share this devotional reflection! 

If this reflection stirred something in you, I’d love to walk alongside you. Whether through coaching, journaling resources, or nourishing wellness tools, let’s co-create a season that’s rooted in peace and alignment.

You don’t have to navigate this season alone. If you’re ready to move from overwhelm to alignment - mind, body, and soul - coaching might be your next brave step. Let’s explore it together.

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Editor's Note:

This devotional blog is by Jen Stone-Sexton, Author, Speaker, Teacher, Founder, and Christian Life Coach. Jen has openings for a select number of new clients. Learn more about Jen and what Freedom to Flourish Life Coaching has to offer you.

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